There’s an old saying among those who like to hang out at the racetrack: “You can win the race, but you can’t win the races.” This means that while you can make money on the occasional race, in the long run, the racetrack always wins. Why? They have math on their side. They adjust the odds so that they always win. Like playing against the Borg, resistance is useless.

However, with women it is the opposite. Some sly marketers of seduction products will try to convince you that with their products you will have the opportunity to seduce all the girls you meet. When you think about it from a marketing perspective, this is pretty brilliant.

If you fail with a woman, you just need to buy more products or attend more seminars. Once they get you to accept that belief, they have a customer for life. It’s a well-kept secret in the circle of seduction gurus who travel the country (and the world) giving seminars year after year to the same set of top clients.

So you can see that looking at woman-on-woman seduction is a losing proposition (for you, not the gurus). However, what happens when you look at women in general, rather than one woman in particular?

Say you don’t know anything about seduction. You think you have to “get lucky” or something. You date three or four girls before finally meeting one and settling down.

This has been the model for centuries. Is it the best model? far from there Why? Because if you only date four or five girls long enough to really get to know them, you’re not really giving yourself much of a choice.

And for most guys, dating four or five girls means talking to five or six enough to date them.

But when you look at the wide world of women through the eyes of a natural seducer, things change. Suddenly you see hundreds if not thousands of women to choose from.

Are you going to seduce them all? Hardly. But you’re certainly going to talk to a lot more of them. Consider someone who actually tries to “get laid” on a regular basis. He will probably talk to five to ten women a week.

What do you think your chances are of finding someone really special, with a lot in common, with whom you can build a really good relationship, compared to someone who hopes it will “just happen”?

When you only have five to ten options in your entire life to create a relationship, it can be quite stressful.

But when you talk to five to ten girls a week? Finding a perfect relationship is almost guaranteed.